MY STORY
As a hopeless romantic, it’s exhilarating for me to play a part in my clients’ love stories. I like to think of it as fate or destiny when there is a match, and not just a random coincidence. Each connection is for a reason and I am the conduit guiding the first steps.
Before I launched the Lovelife Muse, I spent the past two decades as an A-list matchmaker—where successful relationships were the goal. What intrigued me most through the years were the thousands of fascinating heart to heart conversations I was having. Many people found me to be a trustworthy confidante. I listened intently and wanted to help everyone.
This led me on a journey…
A JOURNEY OF SELF-DISCOVERY
I quickly recognized that everyone’s journey is unique. Yet they share a common hyperfocus to find love. Most share tales of heartache (including narcissist exes), loneliness, or the fear of being alone. Others are “all good,” meaning the timing is just off for them. These stories would resonate deeply with me.
Early on in my career, I was a single mom in my 30s and personally knew their pain and frustration. Since there are no rules on how to heal a broken heart I took my intuition seriously and I pressed pause on my love life… for more than two years. I used this time to explore a personal passion for spiritual practices with energy work to heal my heart. I channeled this energy into my clients, which led me to an interesting discovery…
STOP SEEKING, START ATTRACTING
What if it was really more about the journey rather than the destination? Instead of the end goal being to “find your match,” what if the focus was more introspective and self-reflective?
As hard as you may try, you can’t force or control when you find your match. But an inward search for self-love, well-being, and body/mind/spirit balance might be what you need to attract what (or who) you deserve. And perhaps the first step is getting to the heart of the matter so you can identify what is holding you back. AND what if knowing and fixing what was holding you back in the short term could leverage a healthy, happy relationship for the long haul? That’s what I discovered when I shifted my energy from seeking to attracting. It worked for me: I met my husband.
FROM MATCHMAKER TO MUSE
I discovered that my true passion and purpose was evolving. Over the course of nearly two decades as a matchmaker, I was becoming more heart-centered and spiritual, and less focused on making matches. I started to wonder how my personal methods and love lessons could help more people find their soulmate with a completely NEW approach and a spiritual spin.
My passion for energy work grew exponentially and I started seeking alternative healing modalities - a way to amplify the healing process for myself and people I worked with. I sourced inspiration from a mixture of the Law of Vibration/Attraction, meditation, Moonology, and crystal energy. To start, crystals became a favorite that I would give out to those I intuitively felt needed their healing powers. And the positive feedback was validating! I spent the next couple years expanding my spiritual study, alternative healing research, and personal exploration. The more I learned, the more my life transformed.
Combined with the right habits, mindset, and intention, my vision became clear: To create a process to help single people help themselves.
CREATE SPACE FOR NEW LOVE
I developed a methodology/guide for bringing love-life dreams into reality, with the emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being as the framework. By releasing what no longer serves you, resetting your well-being, and creating space for new love, you manifest love much faster. You actually become the energy you wish to attract. And here’s the gamechanger I uncovered: You don’t need a matchmaker to find love. YOU had the power all along. You simply need the tools, support, and teachings to be a magnet for love.
Today, I teach love lessons, I advise, and I share my support with single people as the Lovelife Muse – a mindset, manifesting, and matchmaking expert. I am a Certified Crystal Practitioner®, and certified in Moonology, using the moon’s lunar cycles, phases, and energies to amplify manifesting abilities.
The Lovelife Muse is the physical manifestation of the self-sanctuary for matters of the heart I yearned for while single in my 30s. I’m grateful I am able to motivate, inspire, and teach everyone how to attract and live the love-life they dream of and deserve!